Fast With Me
A detox from the Technology of Sex
Mondays April 23 to June 4

This is an experiment for those who want to interrupt the pattern of constant technological stimulation. To see what your sexuality feels like without the feed running it.

Let’s fast together. Support each other.

— No porn.
— No hook-up apps.
— No endless scrolling.
(we’ll design the fast together)

Not because it’s bad. Because it’s constant. Because it trains the body and mind to expect satisfaction on demand. Because it floods the body and mind with powerful chemicals, then leaves it depleted. Because it shapes desire before you even get a say in it.

This is a pause.
A few weeks, held in community.
A chance to look up from the phone.

To feel what intimacy is without the buffer.
More direct. More vulnerable. More real. No pressure to be perfect. Just stay in the experiment.

See what shifts.
See what comes back online.

I ran this for three months.
It changed how I experience desire.
It changed how I connect.

Let’s see what happens.

Who is this for
This is for people who identify as men and the masculine*, who are feeling something is off, even if they can’t fully name it.


a note: this practice is focused on the masculine energy even though we are always in a specturm and the feminine energy will always be honored and present. So anyone who wants to practice and connect is welcome.

those who are:

  • tired of cycling through apps, images, and quick hits of connection

  • noticing their attention is fragmented or harder to hold

  • wanting deeper intimacy, but defaulting to speed and convenience

  • curious about their sexuality beyond stimulation and novelty

  • willing to sit in a bit of discomfort instead of immediately reaching for relief

  • interested in spirituality, presence, or self-inquiry—but don’t want it to be abstract or judged

  • open to being in a room (virtual or real) with other men, honestly


Price

→ Standard — $40 per session ($240.00)

Supports the steady holding of the circle, including preparation and facilitation.

→ Supported — $10 per session ($60.00)

Supports those who are currently stretched financially but wish to stay connected to this work.

→ Supporter — $80 per session ($480.00)

for those who feel called to give at a level that supports both their own journey and others in the circle.

It’s more important to me that you’re able to access spiritual work without the barrier of financial stress. If these amounts don’t fit your current situation, you are still welcome. You’re invited to contribute whatever feels right for you. What matters most is your presence and sincerity.

This circle is rooted in reciprocity.

Give what you can. Receive what you need.

How to Join

1. You can just reach out to me if your curious and have questions
→ Book a short call
→ Email me
→ Text me

2. If you are joining I will send you a short intake form.

3. Send payment. Pay what you can. See below.

4. Then I will send you invite to a what’s app group and to the event itself



Payment info

→ Venmo
→ Zelle → 6463350097

Place ‘fast’ and email address in payment comment

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